In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Khara's children's scholarship fund.
Khara Rachelle (Allison) Julian, age 34, of El Dorado Springs, MO, went to be with her Lord on Saturday evening, May 13, 2017. Khara was born on April 19, 1983, in Nevada, Missouri, to Greg and Cheri Allison. She was obedient to Godís word, putting Him on in baptism on April 16, 1995.
Khara married Jared Julian, her high school sweetheart, on December 26, 2003. As a fitness buff, she enjoyed working at the YMCA, and as an avid reader, she loved her job at the Woodneath Public Library. But her lifeís work and true vocation was being a stay-at-home mom to their three children, Jalen (14), Anders (12), and Lauren (9).
Khara was beloved. That word gets used so often that sometimes its meaning gets diluted, but there is no other word to describe the way people feel about her. She was an amazing mother, wholly devoted to her children. She was a wonderful partner and wife. As her parentsí first child and only daughter, she was a priceless gift. She was a friend you could always count on to laugh with you, talk with you, cry with you, and be brutally, refreshingly honest with you. She was a master knitter, and she loved to paint, draw, and sketch. She was sweet, shy, irreverently funny, smart, kind, and beautiful beyond measureóboth inside and out. There are no words to describe how much she has been loved in her all-too-short life and how much she will be missed by everyone who knew her.
Preceding Khara in death was her brother, Nathan Allison, and her grandfather, Clarence Taylor.
Survivors include her husband, Jared; children: Jalen, Anders, and Lauren; parents, Greg and Cheri Allison of El Dorado Springs, MO; brother, A.J. Allison and wife Cody of Bolivar, MO; brother Ian Allison of Aviano, Italy; grandparents, Karl and Earline Allison of El Dorado Springs, MO; grandparents, Ray and Toni Yarnell of El Dorado Springs, MO; grandmother, Norma Taylor of Stockton, MO; aunts and uncles, including Rhonda and David Sibley of El Dorado Springs, MO; Davin and Lisa Allison of El Dorado Springs, MO; Troy and Nikki Allison of El Dorado Springs, MO; Sasha and John Queen of El Dorado Springs, MO; Saree Allison of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina; Pamela Forest of El Dorado Springs, MO; Sandi Bouchard of San Antonio, TX; Terri and Shane Carver of Monte Vista, CO; Boie and Robyn Yarnell of Lakeland, FL; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
ďAnd did you get what
you wanted from this life, even so?
And what did you want?
To call myself beloved, to feel myself
beloved on the earth.Ē
--Late Fragment by Raymond Carver
Funeral services for Khara Julian will be held on Saturday, May 20, 2017, at 1:00 p.m. at the Church of God (Holiness) with Seth Michael officiating. Visitation will be held on Friday, May 19, 2017, between 6:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. at Bland-Hackleman Chapel. Arrangements are under the direction of Bland-Hackleman Funeral Home.
Pallbearers are: Greg Allison, A.J. Allison, Ian Allison, Troy Allison, Davin Allison, and Shane Carver. Honorary pallbearers are: Jalen Julian, Anders Julian, and Lauren Julian.